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December 29th, 2007

Saturday Sillies – Comedy Cats

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[tags]comedy cats,funny videps,funny pets,humor[/tags]

December 28th, 2007

Will a Home Business Be For You in the New Year?

I have to admit, I love what I do. Being a stay at home mom is a real delight. But I honestly don’t know that I would enjoy it as much without my home business. It’s wonderful having something I can focus on that is about my interests.

start your home business

Not to mention bringing in some money. It really helps to not be limited to a single income.

I know a lot of stay at home moms think about starting a home business. Some even take action. But the hardest, most challenging part is really getting started.

I don’t just mean joining an opportunity. I mean commiting to it and working hard. Doing what it takes to make it work.

You can’t kid yourself. Working at home is hard work. There isn’t a home business out there that does all the work for you.

But the wonderful thing is that the right business is fun to work on. There will still be some parts that are tedious, but if you delight in your work overall you can get through the dull parts.

Let me share with you two of the things I love most about running a website:

I can do it anytime.

I can take a break anytime.

When you’re a stay at home mom, those are highly valuable things. My primary working times are when my kids are playing together, my son is taking a nap, or they are both asleep at night. I can get bits of work done during the day, yet be there when the kids need me.

For example, I have a rule that if my kids want a story read while I’m working, I quit working and start reading. It may take a couple minutes if I’m in the middle of a thought, but I can do it.

When you have an almost 3 year old and a 5 year old, that’s really valuable.

One of the most intimidating things is just getting started. When I started this site, I didn’t realize where it would take me. It has succeeded in ways I never expected. It has made me work on things I never expected to work on.

Running a website is not as hard as some might think. I took some website design courses in college, but that is not what everyone needs.

If you need to get inspired to get moving, I suggest reading the free WAHM-IT! Masters Course. You might be amazed at how many different ways stay at home moms can succeed in home business. Or if you just want to get started now, visit the work at home page of Site Build It and see what they have to offer.

I firmly believe in the products SBI has to offer. It’s not just hosting. It’s tools to build a successful site. It’s a process you go through to help you succeed with your business. Even my dad loves it.

Why not use the new year to stop putting off starting your own home business. Do the work and get started. If you choose well you will love what you do as much as I do.

[tags]work at home,starting a home business,new year,wahm,site build it,sbi[/tags]

December 27th, 2007

Thursday 13 – 13 Christmas Presents My Kids Have Already Used

Hey, have to see what they actually liked, right?

  1. Wooden train set
    We got the cheap version rather than paying a premium for the Thomas brand. Going out later to let the kids each pick a Thomas engine, since my son really wants one. We’re going to have to contact Amazon on it because the price dropped by about half of what we paid.
  2. Tonka dump truck
    We got it for a steal of $10 at Walmart on Black Friday. My husband went there without me since I loathe Black Friday shopping.
  3. Play-Doh® Super Craft Caddy
  4. Trouble
  5. Bath shaving set
    This was a fun one. My sister picked it up for me when she found it cheap in exchange for a tooth fairy doll one of her daughters had wanted that I found for her.
  6. Baby doll
  7. Tumble Tree Timbers
    Think Lincoln Logs, but cheaper.
  8. Tonka truck puzzle book
  9. Fairy puzzle book
  10. Bathrobe
  11. Dress
  12. Cinderella III
    This has definitely been a hit. 3 viewings already.
  13. Skirt & sweater

All in all, not a bad start, I think. It’s really interesting seeing what really caught their attention.

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December 26th, 2007

Are You Doing Your After Christmas Shopping?

I’m tired of shopping. I didn’t do a lot of it, but the crowds were enough to cut back my interest in shopping.

However, if you want more Christmas decorations or supplies, now is the time to shop for them. They should all be on clearance. It’s a great way to get the things you know you will want next year at a much better price. If nothing else, think wrapping paper.

There are often sales on other things too, which is nice if your family’s celebration is a bit spread out. My family still hasn’t finished, since two of my sisters and their families live out of town. I’m done shopping for them, but if I weren’t I’d be checking out the current sales.

Anyone doing major shopping today?

[tags]after christmas sales,after christmas shopping[/tags]

December 26th, 2007

Wordless Wednesday – 5 Christmases

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December 22nd, 2007

Graham Cracker House

I mentioned yesterday and the day before that I was going to help my kids make a graham cracker house this year before Christmas. It’s finally done and I thought I would share how we did it.

powdered sugar and egg white

Ingredients:

graham crackers
assorted candies such as gum, spice drops, Spree, whatever you want to put on it
royal icing

Here’s the recipe for the royal icing:

1 egg white
1 cup powdered sugar
1/4 tsp lemon extract (or vanilla extract, but lemon leaves the mix whiter)

Beat egg whites in a bowl until foamy. Slowly add powdered sugar and lemon extract until completely blended.

crackers cut into triangles

I made one batch of this to assemble the house the first day, and a double batch the next for attaching the candy. How much you need depends on how extensive you let the decorating get.

I covered two cookie sheets with wax paper. Only needed one for building the house, but for making the walls I needed two.

Next I took one graham cracker and cut it into triangles using a butcher knife. One nice firm hit with the heel of my hand to break the crackers in a fairly straight line. Probably any knife long enough with an uncurved blade will do for the job.

graham cracker house sides

Because I knew the kids would want a big house, I used the icing to connect two crackers for each side, and used the triangles to make points to support the roof. I was pretty heavy handed with the icing. I forgot to borrow my mother’s cake decorating supplies to make this easier and neater. But I figured the excess would help to strengthen the crackers once it dried.

A cracker and a half made each of the roof panels. I measured along the triangles to figure that out.

I kept the royal icing in the fridge, covered lightly with a damp paper towel while these dried.

Once they were dry enough, I assembled the house. Without the right tools this was pretty difficult. I used a plastic baggie with a corner cut off to direct the icing as best I could. Not as good as regular cake decorating tips would do, but it helped to get the job done. (Note to self: Next time don’t forget to borrow the cake decorating tools!)

partially assembled graham cracker house

One roof segment cracked when I was trying to attach it, and by that point I had too little icing to do more than fix it. Not enough to save for reattaching it. So I fixed it and decided to reattach it today.

All that was yesterday. I wanted the icing very strong before I let the kids anywhere near anything.

This morning I reattached the roof, then coated it with frosting and shingled it with Necco wafers. This was the point at which I wondered if it would have been smarter to add them yesterday, before assembly. I had to hold them in place for several minutes to keep all the shingles from sliding down, off the roof.

This did later generate the thought that maybe decorating the sides in general would be easier to do as they lay flat on the wax paper. Only thing I don’t know is how that would impact the assembly of the house. Might have too many things in the way then.

Next I covered the surrounding wax paper with the royal icing and let the kids go at it. I did the decorating of the house itself, since the kids didn’t have the patience to hold the candies in one place long enough to do anything on the walls. But they did have a lot of fun placing candies and asking if they could eat another piece yet.

The pine tree and snowman made from spice drops were probably the most difficult. Dratted things took incredibly long to dry. I had to keep a hand on them for at least 15-20 minutes. The snowman was particularly stubborn.

Then I decided to add a little chocolate. I had decided early on that that would be the easiest way to give the snowman a face. So I melted some chocolate chips in the microwave, grabbed a toothpick and went to work. Then I added more chocolate to the house just because I could, and it was chocolate. Who needs more reason than that?

With everything finished, there was still more icing available. I decided that the last bits could be poured over the roof to make something of a snow effect. It was that or throw it out, and that just seemed like more fun.

All in all, I think it turned out rather well:

graham cracker house

[tags]christmas recipes,graham cracker house,candy[/tags]

December 22nd, 2007

Saturday Sillies – Kids and Pets

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[tags]funny videos,kids,parenting,pets[/tags]

December 21st, 2007

8 Reasons Why Working at Home Helps Make Christmas Fun

I was reading a guest post over at eMoms about why the guest (Susan Payton) is glad she works at home, and had to share too. After all, despite all the things I still need to get done, I have a lot of fun.

1. I can do silly things like make a graham cracker house with my kids.

work at home christmas

Got started on that one today. It’s kind of tricky since I forgot to borrow my mom’s cake decorating kit. That really complicates piping the frosting. However, a plastic baggie with a corner cut off does a sloppy but adequate job. I’ll post on the process probably tomorrow when the whole thing is done.
2. I was able to stay late at my daughter’s class today.

They got to wear pajamas to school and watch The Polar Express. Didn’t get to stay for the movie since my son was impatient, but we did sit and listen to the story being read.

3. I’ve missed most of the shopping crowds.

So nice to not be dealing with those crowds. I’ve loathed joining the crowds ever since I quit retail.

4. I can have fun making holiday treats.

It’s more than just the graham cracker house. But some things are surprises for other people. Besides, the more I think of them, the harder it is to avoid temptation.

5. When my daughter’s school break starts I can sleep in a bit too.

Not a whole lot, since my kids don’t sleep in. My son is up around 7 most mornings anyhow… if he sleeps in.

6. I can work around other people’s schedules.

Given the many schedules we have to deal with to handle extended family get togethers at this time of year, it really helps that I can go at just about any time.

7. I can think about business when I have a free moment.

It may seem like working too hard, but it’s so nice to be able to do just a touch of thinking about business when things are quieting down. I don’t feel bad about it, since it’s for me and my family. Doing my work is fun for me, and that I can mostly take a break from it, but still work if the mood strikes is really nice.

8. My kids really appreciate having me home.

Well, actually they’ve never known different. But earlier today I was able to lie down with my son for a little to help is nap get started. With all the exciting things going on he’s been trying not to take naps. I think they’d be shocked if they found out how different some kids have it. I think we’re all lucky.

[tags]working at home,christmas [/tags]

December 20th, 2007

13 Christmas Activities I Haven't Completed Yet

  1. Decorating the tree.
    It’s started, as in we got the lights up, but no other decorations. That’s reserved for after school today.
  2. Taking old toys to charity.
    The biggest reason we didn’t have the tree up is that we were determined to go through the kids’ toys and give a bunch of them away to charity. We now have 3 boxes of old toys ready to go. Just have to drive them over so they don’t spend the next year just sitting in the garage.
  3. Making graham cracker houses.
    Because the kids hate gingerbread. We’ll probably get this going tomorrow after my daughter comes home from school.
  4. Having my daughter make Christmas presents.
    We bought her some crafts so that she could make Christmas presents, and this morning I realized we hadn’t actually gotten her started yet. Oops.
  5. Take the kids out to get presents for each other.
    The craft thing doesn’t work too well for each other, since it wouldn’t be a surprise.
  6. Making cookies.
    Because it’s just fun, you know?
  7. Shopped for Christmas dinner supplies.
    I get to host dinner on Christmas day because that’s actually the smaller gathering this year. Everyone’s coming on the weekend after instead. We’re having lasagna, since I can assemble it the day before, making my life a bit easier Christmas day.
  8. Wrapping presents.
    Then again, I almost always do all of this Christmas Eve anyhow.
  9. Breakfast with Shamu and Santa.
    I doubt we’re going to manage this one at all. They do ‘Breakfast with Shamu’ at Sea World I think year-round, but at this time of year Santa is there too. We just never found the time. But there’s one morning still open that it’s possible, so maybe….
  10. Hanging outdoor Christmas decorations.
    We bought some plastic decorations for outside, but haven’t put them up yet. We don’t have a good place to plug in lights outside, so I really liked this subsitution.
  11. Visit Santa anywhere.
    I know the kids will at least see him at the family gathering Christmas Eve, so this one is really not a problem at all. But they’ll be quite delighted if we manage the breakfast one I mentioned above. Or we could go to Quail Botanical Gardens as we have in the past. One of the most beautiful places I know for visiting Santa, much nicer than the mall.
  12. Find a way to light our Christmas tree star.
    We have this beautiful, gold tone filigree star for the top of our Christmas tree. But it looks a bit dull up there because of all the lights. This is more my husband’s job, as he promises every year to try to find a way to get some lights inside it. It will probably require cutting it open and resoldering it, so there’s some risk that he’ll just damage it too much. But if he can do it, it should be beautiful.
  13. Get the house company-ready.
    We’re still a bit of a mess here, but getting better. But you know how it is when you’re going to have company. You get picky.

Overall, though, I’m really happy with what we’ve gotten done. The chaos is finally somewhat under control.

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December 19th, 2007

I Am Such a Geek Mom

And that I can tell you this is one of the great things about mostly preliterate children. I can post about Christmas presents online and they won’t know.
My daughter has been begging for a video game system. There are some nice ones out there aimed at her age range, but the trouble is that she would outgrow them too soon. Something to get used to, I suppose, considering how often kids want the latest system as they get older, but I like to resist these things.

So I found an Atari 2600 in good condition on eBay. It had a few games with it and enough controllers, so that’s what we went with.

I see some serious advantages, at least from my perspective.

  1. The kids are still at an age where there are plenty of appropriate video games for them online. Lots of educational sites geared to them, such as Starfall.
  2. More game cartridges are fairly cheap. Compare that to $20 or so for each new cartridge for a Leapster.
  3. The kids may well still like it when they’re older. Leapster and such will be outgrown soon enough.
  4. The games are still fun for my husband and I!

I’m really hoping my kids will enjoy these. My daughter has played a bit of Pacman at an arcade before, and that’s one of the games that came with the system, so I know there’s at least one game she’s likely to enjoy reasonably well.

[tags]atari 2600,geek mom,christmas presents[/tags]