How do you keep that budget under control?

I came across a book that could be very helpful. It’s called Miserly Moms: Living Well on Less in a Tough Economy.

As with just about any book on saving money, some of it will be common sense to you. Anyone can tell you to adjust the thermostat, shop sales and cut back on the grocery bills. That’s the easy stuff we all should know.

But there are also tips on saving on medical expenses, making cleaning supplies, freezer meals, cutting the money wasters in your life, understanding marketing tricks, teaching the kids to save and more. It’s a lot of great information for families that need to be a bit more frugal.

We’re already pretty frugal here, but I look forward to seeing if we can do better. Even with my business I’d like to be able to save more money. It’s a great lesson for the kids and a sensible financial decision.

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1. Remember what you’re saving.

Two incomes are not always significantly better than one. Depending on the number of children who would need to be in childcare, the cost of commuting, meals out, wardrobe, taxes and so forth, the second income may be more easily replaced than you expect. Some families even discover that having both parents work means they have less money. It doesn’t always happen that way, but it is quite worthwhile to figure out what the actual amount being brought in is.

2. Think about which parent stays at home.

It’s not always the mother who is most suited, either in personality or in earning potential. Both should be considerations. The person who will do best as a stay at home parent will generally do better with all the things that need to be done to keep a single income household running. Just make sure that the emotional support is there for both parents.

3. Check your housing expenses.

Housing is by far most families’ largest monthly expense. If it’s going to be tight going to a single income, look at ways to cut that expense. If you’re renting, consider a smaller place or one that is in a more affordable place… so long as you’re comfortable living in the area. You should not sacrifice your peace of mind.

If you own, look at what it’s costing you. If your current home is stretching your budget too hard, think about if it would be worthwhile to move. Sometimes the expenses of selling and moving are worth it, other times definitely not!

4. Look at your other monthly bills.

Telephone, electricity, gas, water, cable, internet… they all add up. Often times they can be controlled.

You can decide to simplify the plans you have on your phones. Cell phones are extremely common now, and some people choose to drop their land line telephone in favor of just using cell phones. Others simply drop features from the land line, such as caller ID, call waiting and any excessive long distance calling plans.

And of course you should be working on cutting down your water use, turning off excess lights, resetting the thermostat so you use less power, things like that. You can adapt and be comfortable with these.

You will have to decide for yourself what level, if any, of cable and internet services you need. These days the internet is used quite a bit by students, of course, and for quite a bit of regular communication through email for many people. But you can consider which speed of service you really need to pay for.

5. Pay down your debts.

Most especially pay down credit card debts. If you’re going to be earning less money as a family, you need fewer worries about your finances. Any debts you can get rid of or pay way down first will save you a lot of worry later on and provide you with greater financial flexibility.

6. Pay your bills on time.

Paying a late fee is a sign of not paying enough attention to when bills are due. They’re utterly unnecessary, especially since these days you can have many bills paid automatically. Just be sure any accounts you use for automatic payments always have enough money in them.

7. Make a budget – and stick to it.

Living on a budget isn’t fun. However it’s one of the most practical ways to be sure that you can afford to have one parent stay at home. Stick to it as best you can.

8. Have an emergency fund.

Stuff happens. A car breaks down. Someone gets sick. Have some money set aside so these problems aren’t added to with a financial crisis.

9. Use coupons and follow sales.

The more attention you pay to the many ways you can get lower prices, the less you’re going to pay in all your shopping. You can often get coupons for your favorite products by contacting the manufacturer. Plan your meals around what’s on sale and know which stores it makes sense to go to.

10. Learn about local free entertainment for your family.

There are a lot of things you can do for free in most areas. Museums may have free days. There are parks to play in. Play games at home.

11. Plan for holiday and birthday expenses.

You know when these are coming. If you plan ahead they won’t be a big drain on your budget.

12. See if the parent working outside the home can use public transportation or carpool.

As gas prices rise, either of these becomes a better and better idea. The practicality depends on your area, but when it works you can save a significant amount each month. There’s some loss of convenience, of course, but if the car is needed on a particular day that can be arranged.

You may be able to cut down to one vehicle for your family, a huge savings! My family has done this, and while it’s hard at times it is quite doable.

13. Get books and movies from the library.

Sure it’s not the same selection as if you’re buying them, and you may have to wait a while. But you can’t beat the price.

14. Get to know the other parents in your area.

Perhaps especially the other stay at home parents with kids around the ages of your own. They’re great for support, for the children’s playtime, for trading babysitting.

15. Consider whether working at home is an option.

It is very possible for the at home parent to earn anywhere from a very little to a lot of money from home. Do some research on the possibilities and decide if this will work for your family. It can make the difference when things get rough.

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Now, if things are bad enough you may need to look at getting a job outside the home, say, after your spouse comes home. Not fun, but when the need arises it’s one of the sacrifices you make.

You can also do your best to cut the bills. Do you really need cable television, a regular phone and a cell phone? Make cuts in your luxury bills as necessary.

A garage sale is a quick way to make money. Of course, it only works once in a while. But it brings in some money and gets rid of clutter.

There aren’t many ways to earn money quickly from home. Most work at home jobs are really hard to get into. There’s just a lot of competition. Similarly, home businesses can take time to get off the ground, and generally cost money to get started.

However, there are a couple things you can do to earn money fairly quickly. Some of this depends on how quickly you need money. If you need it in a week, there’s not much you can do. But if you need it within 2-3 months you have some time to get things going and get the money coming in.

If you can write, Associated Content pays $3-20 per article through Paypal. You can read on their site on how they decide what to pay you. Your submissions for pay are reviewed within five days. You can also bid for jobs on sites such as eLance.

Another option for writers, or rather bloggers, is to join PayPerPost. I’m doing this one a bit myself. It’s fun at times but a lot of work. There must be a regular post between each paid post, so you have to post quite a bit in order to accept a lot of paid posts. Your blog must be at least 90 days old, have at least 20 posts and no more than a 1 month interval without posting. Pay depends on which opportunity you choose. Not all posts insist upon positive reviews, so you can maintain your integrity and give your honest opinion in most assignments. If you don’t like the opportunity and they insist on a positive review, you just skip it.

In some areas mystery shopping can do well. It depends on how many companies are needing mystery shoppers in your area as well as how many other mystery shoppers are in your area. One challenge with mystery shopping is that many companies pay you at the end of the month after you do the shop… that is to say potentially close to two months after you do the work.

If you can take the financial risk…. not terribly likely if you need to earn money fast, but still worth mentioning, you can try pay per click advertising. Go to Google AdWords (see link on left beneath navigation), Yahoo or other pay per click search engines to advertise a product. Clickbank has a bunch of electronic products and pays every two weeks if you earn enough in that pay period. This is good in that you can quickly figure out if you’re making or losing money.

However, many people lose money doing pay per click advertising, so it is a risk you may not be up for taking. This one takes a lot of research… finding the right product, right keywords, tweaking your ad text to maximize returns… it is not all that easy. But for those who are good at it, it can be quite profitable.

Selling on eBay" alt="" /> can also be quite profitable. You can sell things on eBay rather than do a garage sale or get more stuff to sell from thrift shops and such. Be careful how you set your initial prices. Too high scares off potential bidders, but too low risks that you will lose money.

You can offer services in your area. Housecleaning, gardening, running errands… it’s a kind of business, but one that you can ask for payment as soon as you do the job, rather than waiting weeks for payment. You can talk to family, friends, neighbors or post flyers to find work.

Babysitting is another service you can provide. You can do the work involved in setting up a standard daycare, which usually involves licensing and regular inspections, or you can think of a way to just watch kids when the parents need someone on an emergency basis or just to run errands for a few hours.

Earning money quickly from home isn’t impossible, but it can be difficult. If money is often tight for you, have emergency plans and try to come up with ways to make things a little less tight for your family.

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