Working at home successfully doesn’t come quickly to all of us. Many people have to try several opportunities, whether they are stay at home jobs or home business opportunities before they find the right match for their availability and income needs. Learning to work at home doesn’t come that easy for many people.
It’s often a school of hard knocks before you really get it. You may feel like a failure for months or years before you really get things moving the way you’d like to.
Don’t be Ashamed of Falling for Scams
Falling for a work at home scam is perhaps one of the hardest knocks you can take when you’re looking for the right way to work at home. It’s embarrassing when you realize that you’ve fallen for a work at home scam. It happens to lots of us. That doesn’t mean you’re destined to fail as a work at home parent. It means only that you made a mistake.
The only way you fail by falling for a work at home scam is if you don’t learn anything from the experience. It may be painful, especially if you have to admit monetary losses to a spouse or other family members, but it’s something you have to do.
If you fall for a scam, look hard at what made it possible. There are a lot of different reasons why people fall for scams. Here are a few:
- Greed – the money looked so good you had to try.
- Deception – the scam successfully imitated a legitimate opportunity
- Laziness – the work looked so easy!
- Scarcity – you believed the marketing hype that told you it was limited.
- Too trusting – you were too willing to believe.
- Desperation – you need money badly.
- Fear – the scam hits right on something you fear.
Some people find avoiding scams to be the most difficult part of learning to work at home. I once had someone contact me repeatedly, concerned that a particular opportunity was a scam. I confirmed that it was, and explained why.
The person then asked me if another opportunity was a scam.
Not only was it a scam, it was essentially the same scam. I explained the warning signs again. They sent me a third opportunity to look at for them.
You guessed it. Same scam.
Some people want so badly to work at home that they have trouble being sensible about it. They can’t see what’s right in front of them. You have to learn how to look at these things carefully so that you catch the warning signs.
The prevalence of work at home scams is why it is so very important to really think before signing up with any opportunity. Do your research. Ask around. This will help keep you from falling for scams.
You May Not Always Earn What You Hope to Earn
Whether you find a work at home job, do freelance work or start some other sort of home business, you probably won’t always earn what you hope to earn. It’s not a good feeling to come up short on your goals, but you have to be realistic. It takes time to get things to where you really want them to be.
Be realistic with your financial goals, and don’t give up on them easily. You probably wouldn’t make your dream income working outside the home right off either. Most of us have to work up to it.
Sometimes you may have to accept lower pay to get started. Don’t do this for too long, and don’t go absurdly low.
It amazes me how often people suggest doing online tasks that pay well under minimum wage. Sure, they’re saying to do it in your free time, but isn’t it better to find work that pays better even then?
Some jobs have a learning curve where you’ll earn less than minimum wage at first, but as you improve, so does your income.
Transcriptionists often face that problem. I remember when I first started out as a medical transcriptionist. It was difficult to earn more than a few bucks an hour. But I quickly improved to where I could earn $15+ per hour.
The learning curve was worth it in that case. If your pay won’t increase significantly with experience, the low pay won’t be worth it.
You Won’t Always Have Perfect Cooperation and Respect for What You Do From Family and Friends
Supportive family and friends are a huge help when you work at home. It’s hard to get everyone to take you seriously when so many people you know are certain that you’re getting scammed, or it won’t work out, or just don’t think what you’re doing is real work.
What matters is that you take it seriously.
The people you know will take their cues from you on how to treat your work. A few may never get it, but the more seriously you take your work, the more seriously most others will take it too.
Talk to your spouse and children about what you need from them. They’re the most important part of your support network, as they are the most likely to be in the house with you when you need to work.
Working at Home Doesn’t Always Mean Working When You Want
There’s the old bit about how you can set your own hours when you work at home. It’s one of the most appealing parts of working at home. The problem is that it’s not entirely true.
Many people are dismayed to find out how many hours it really takes to successfully work at home. It’s not easy. You may work more hours than you would have outside the home. You can’t always choose which ones you want, at least not if you want to bring in an income. Sometimes your work hours are set by the needs of the kind of work you’re doing.
Working at home also tends to blend into daily life and family time. Your work is always right there. Learning to separate work and family time takes practice.
It’s even rougher when you have infants and toddlers who really need your attention. You may find their needs and the needs of your job or business don’t mix too well. Despite any intentions otherwise, many work at home parents do resort to paid childcare so that they can get work done. That’s not a failure. That’s dealing with reality.
Fortunately, you often will have flexibility. Be prepared, however, to deal with the times when you need to sacrifice some of the fun times to earn a living.
Self Discipline May Not Come Naturally
It takes a lot of self discipline to work at home. There are a lot of distractions. Little things eat into your schedule. If you don’t have the self discipline to minimize these problems, you will have a hard time learning to work at home successfully.
You can’t rely on feedback from your employer if you have a work at home job. It may not come in time.
Self discipline is even more important if you’re running a home business. Your success depends in large part on your self discipline. If you don’t have it, working enough hours to make money from home will be very difficult.
Setting up a comfortable home office is a huge help when it comes to self discipline. It won’t solve all of your problems, but it gives you a regular place to work.
Ideally, your home office should be quiet and have a door you can close. Closing your door when you need to work can close out a lot of distractions. Depending on what you do, you may or may not need to work in your home office every day. But it should be available to you.
But you need more.
You need the discipline to start work on time, and to work hard through the hours you need to work. Distractions abound, such as:
- Online games
- Social media
- Friends and family
If self discipline is a challenge, set goals and rewards for yourself. Some should be relatively easy (but not too easy) to hit. Others should take steady effort over days, weeks or even months.
Teach yourself to work even when you don’t feel like it. You’d have to do that if you worked outside the home, after all. Take your work at home job or home business just as seriously.
Overwork Comes Too Naturally
If you have enough self discipline to work at home, you may find that you also have the tendency to work too much. Finding the right work-life balance can be difficult.
Now, this may sound like a great problem to have. And there are times when the ability and willingness to work long hours will be to your advantage. But there can also be too much of that.
When you overwork yourself, you become too tired to do a good job. This can impact your creativity, accuracy, and how fast you can work.
It also impacts your life outside work. What happens to family time when you work too much?
Boundaries matter when you work at home. You must learn to stop working and be a part of your family when your work day is done.
Sure, there may be times when those long hours are necessary, and even a benefit to your family in the long run. But they shouldn’t happen all of the time.
Expenses Catch You By Surprise
Working at home can save you a lot of money. You don’t drive to work every day. You can dress however you like most days. But there may be some expenses you haven’t considered.
Work At Home Job Expenses
Some work at home jobs will provide you will all the equipment you need. They may even help pay for your internet connection.
Others will require you to provide your own equipment. This is especially true if you’re considered an independent contractor rather than an employee.
If you provide your own equipment and need to repair or replace something, that’s on you. When it’s time to upgrade, that’s on you. If you don’t own a piece of equipment you need, you guessed it, that’s on you.
Some work at home jobs provide on the job training or will help you keep up your skills with ongoing training. Others will require that you get your own training.
These are some of the work at home expenses you might not be expecting:
You’re working at home, kids in the background. Over time, you come to realize that it’s just not working. They’re too distracting.
Trading childcare or having family members help out turn out to be not enough. It’s time to pay for daycare.
You may have to spend some money getting set up to your employer’s standards:
You have a nice home office setup, and a solid wifi connection. But your employer requires a wired internet connection. You have to pay to run a cable to your home office. This may be as simple as finding a long enough cable for the job, or as expensive as having a professional set you up.
Home Business Expenses
If you are running your own home business, of course all of these expenses will fall on you. It can be a very good idea, in fact, to budget for training to improve your skills. You can improve your business much more quickly if you learn new skills from someone else than if you try to figure it out on your own.
You’ve tried your hand at social media marketing. Pinterest, Twitter, Instagram… you’ve tried, but you just aren’t getting results. You’ve heard about the amazing results other people get from social media, so naturally you want to do better too.
Time to figure out which social media training course is right for your needs.
Don’t forget basic advertising expenses:
Social media marketing isn’t enough. Time to buy some ads!
Home business expenses can add up, even though the basic costs of hosting your website are quite affordable.
Some things can wait on your budget, which is nice when you’re starting on a shoestring. But many of the things you can do to improve your home business a little more quickly will cost money. They also aren’t guaranteed to work, so your risk is increased.
Successfully advertising your site, for example, often has an expensive learning curve. You can take a course that will teach you to run successful ads, but you might not find the right mix right away.
Don’t Let Learning To Work At Home Get You Down
Learning to work at home can be frustrating, especially if you do have to go through the school of hard knocks to find success. You have to keep trying or you’ll never find the right way to earn money from home.
Don’t let the naysayers get you down. They probably mean well, but telling you over and over that you’re going to fail isn’t helpful. There may be a fine distinction between a naysayer and someone who sees something you don’t however, so don’t dismiss all criticism out of hand.
Don’t let your mistakes get you down. Learn from them. A mistake isn’t a complete failure if you learn from it.
Learning to work at home takes time. Not everyone succeeds at the first thing they try to do from home. Even if you start the perfect work at home job or home business right from the start, there are plenty of other mistakes to make. Give yourself time to make the progress you need to do better. You’ll get there.