Am I Taking Enough Time Off After Having a Baby?
So here I am, blogging after having a baby. Shouldn’t I be taking a rest?
Not to worry folks, I am!
As I said before I had Selene, I took time before she was born to prewrite a lot of posts. Most of what you see is the result of that activity. It’s giving me the chance to take things much easier without completely abandoning my site. All I have to do is keep up with comments and the forum, and write if I feel like it.
I’m also taking this time to work on some site updates and such. A little behind the scenes work, if you will, while letting everything else run on a touch of autopilot. It takes the stress away. I have no idea if I’ll finish before I run out of prewritten posts, and I don’t particularly care. This kind of work can wait longer if necessary.
Keeping up with a little work feels good to me. I’m not so good at keeping my focus only on family and home. Working is an outlet for me.
And of course I’m taking time for my older two kids. They certainly need a little extra while their baby sister takes so much time.
Yes, I’m extra tired. And achy. You know the litany of postpartum complaints if you’ve had a child yourself. That’s why I planned things out so much.
Working this way is something of a treat. No goals. No self imposed deadlines. Just doing what I feel up to doing.
It’ll drive me nuts if I keep it up too long. I like having goals and self imposed deadlines. They ensure that I actually accomplish things. But until I have the energy for them I can call it a treat.
