After 42 weeks of pregnancy, two days of undergoing inducement and physical stress on the baby, my daughter was delivered via an emergency
C-section. Oh, it was music to my ears when my gynecologist arrived in my hospital room at 4:30 a.m. and told me they were going to do an emergency C-section. I must have been in shock or delirious! However, after going through a traumatic two days, I had had enough and I wanted to meet this precious baby who lived inside of me for 9+ months. The time came and I was wheeled to the operating room, and what a blessed event it was to see my sweet new baby girl!
I wasn’t prepared for the aftermath of a C-Section but I am so grateful that I had a great family who were there for me and helped me every step of the way.
1) Plan ahead. No one can predict whether or not you'll need an emergency c-section. So prepare yourself with information.
2) Try not to be upset if you are told you have to undergo a C-section to deliver your baby. I know that many new parents are less than thrilled at the prospect and have expected to have a normal vaginal delivery. Plenty of women feel put down and feel less like a woman because they did not deliver their baby through the hard work of labour. I know it is emotionally hard. Truly, the main concern is you and your baby’s health and that is more important than how you delivered your baby.
3) Expect a brief hospital stay. My daughter and I were in the hospital for four days after the birth. If you require assistance at any time in caring for you or your baby, are uncomfortable due to the pain, or have any questions, do not be afraid to ask for help. There were times when I was too proud to press the buzzer to ask for assistance. But, believe me, their assistance is very much required, especially with the care of your newborn baby.
4) When the time comes and the nurses and/or doctors tell you to walk around, do try. It may be difficult but do try to do a little walking if and when possible. It helps to alleviate the stomach gases that are very much a part of the discomfort you feel after a C-section.
5) The day arrives when you and your newborn can finally go home. Enlist support! Ensure that you have family, friends or loved ones to assist you and, once again, do not be afraid to ask for help. Do not try to be supermom! I was fortunate to have a supportive family at home and could not imagine going through the recovery without them. It will take you 6 weeks to fully recuperate from a C-section, afterall, it is major surgery.
6) Do not pick up heavy items. Remember, you have just had surgery and your incision is in the healing process.
7) Ensure that you eat healthy and drink lots of water. This is important to ensure that your digestive system returns to normal.
8) Get plenty of rest and take time for yourself. Plenty of rest is vital for recuperation. Enjoy this period of relaxation because you have many years of motherhood to go!
9) Enjoy this special time with your new baby!
I survived my first C-section and 18 months after the birth of my daughter, I gave birth to a healthy baby boy via a scheduled C-section. The second C-section was easier. I am grateful to have two healthy children who are the joy of my life, irregardless of how I delivered them.
Lee-Anne Robert is a mother of two young children and the owner of Cuddles 'n Gifts at http://www.cuddlesngifts.net offering the gift of shopping convenience and a vast selection of affordable, unique infant gifts, baby shower ideas, newborn baby gift baskets, newborn baby gifts and personalized gift for new baby.
This one really strikes a chord with me. I had my son, Gage, at 36.5 weeks via urgent C-section due to low amniotic fluid, small size and breech position. While I had truly wanted to have him naturally, I am intensely grateful to modern medicine, which allowed me to have the ultrasound that showed the C-section to be necessary, thereby saving my son's life. He was healthy at birth, but would likely have not survived natural childbirth. He could have been miscarried at any point, my amniotic fluid was so low.
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